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談敬老
Respecting the Elderly

陳頌淵/文 by Matthew Chen

談到「敬老」,大家都知道,敬老的目的是要尊重老人們,因為老人們的知識和體驗都比我們還要豐富。

我記得去年有一次開周會,在道源堂。校長叫每一班,派一位同學上來「談如何敬老」(從生活中,舉出例子)。那一次,剛好我被選出來演講。我想了一下就說:「在我們日常生活中的例子非常非常的多!好比像上公車時,我們應該要讓年紀較大的老人們先上車,如果他們有任何的需要我們應該馬上過去幫忙,不是在旁邊看熱鬧。如果在車上,有老人站著,我們就應該把位子讓給他們坐,不是在那裡裝睡,或裝做沒看見他們。還有在家裡或在外面的餐廳裡,如果長輩還沒有到,我們就不能開始吃。」

我們如何尊敬,敬重老人們呢?答案很簡單。就是使老人們快樂而沒有不愉快的時候,讓他們不要為我們操心,不要為我們煩惱,所以我們慈悲的上人吩咐,每年都要舉辦一次「敬老節」。每一次都邀請六十歲以上的老人來參加敬老節。

總而言之,老人們在社會上的經歷非常多。能給我們很多的指點和學習方法,故我們要尊敬老人。

Many of you are already familiar with the term “Respecting the Elderly.” The aim of “respecting” is to pay homage to seniors, due to the extent of their knowledge and experience.

I remember one weekly meeting last year, which was held in the Source of the Way Hall. The Principal called on a student from every class to give an impromptu talk about “How to Pay Respect to the Elderly” (bringing up examples from daily life). Well, I got picked to speak. I thought a moment and said,“There are so many examples that come to mind! For instance, when we are getting on a public bus, we should yield to the elderly and let them get on first. And if they need help of any kind, we should immediately assist them. We shouldn't just stand by and watch. If elderly people are standing on the bus, we should yield our seats to them. We shouldn't just slump in our seats, pretending to be asleep or not noticing them. Whether at home or in a restaurant, we should not begin eating until the elders have arrived.”

How can we show our respect for the elderly? The answer is very simple. We should be sure that the elderly are happy and untroubled. We shouldn't do anything that will cause them to worry about us or get upset. Our compassionate teacher holds a celebration to “Respect the Elderly” every year, inviting everyone over sixty to be honored guests.

In general, the elderly have a wealth of experience to share. They can offer many suggestions and we can learn many things from them. They deserve our respect.

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