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如何培養良好的生活習慣
How to Develop Good Habits

藍勗軒 十三歲 by James Lan age 13

什麼是良好的生活習慣呢?良好便是正當,對自己和別人有幫助、有意義的;生活習慣也就是每天二十四小時中,不停在做的許多事。

如何培養呢?那就要靠個人所立的志,如果一個人自己不立志培養好習慣,而是讓人逼著去做的話,也不會有什麼效果。培養好習慣,也需要個人的品德和情操,培養時的態度要正確,而且專心,那樣就容易了。

培養的方法有很多,如第一:要先知道這個習慣是好是壞,對自己和他人有沒有利益?會不會成為有道德的人?第二:再來決定是否去做,而且肯定能面對任何的考驗後才去做。人做事並不是每次都能成功,失敗時,可以先問問其他成功的人,學習他們的做法,然後自己再奮發圖強的去練習。在萬佛城裡的培德中學,就是要培養良好的習慣,所以我希望更多的朋友來培德中學,在老師的領導下,一起培養出個人生活的好習慣。

曾祥哲 十四歲

培養良好的生活習慣,是非常重要的。因為要先培養良好的生活習慣,才能發展一個良好的人格。這不論對人或處世都非常重要的。

其實我們在日常生活中所做的一切行為舉止,都和我們的生活習慣息息相關。舉例來說:我們每天誠心的參加升旗典禮,就是「忠」。我們尊敬父母,聽從父母,就是「孝」。我們遵守信用,不欺騙別人,就是「信」。我們不浪費食物,節約用水,隨手關燈,就是「儉」。雖然有些都只是舉手之勞的小事,但是卻和培養良好生活習慣息息相關,不容忽視。

要培養良好的生活習慣,首先要立定志向,要知道「君子立恆志,小人恆立志。」的道理,不可心猿意馬。立定志向,要知道「坐而言,不如起而行。」的道理,不可只是隨口說說罷了。培養良好的生活習慣,絕不可半途而廢,否則會前功盡棄的。

古人說「修身,齊家,治國,平天下。」意指要先獨善其身,才能兼善天下,由此可見培養個人習慣的重要性。既然都已知道培養良好生活習慣的重要性,我們又何樂而不為呢?

What are the good habits in the daily life? Good means correct, proper, helpful, and beneficial to others. Habits mean the things one does daily. How do we cultivate the good habits?

Cultivation of good habits must come from one's will. If it is forced by others, it has no effect. It also requires one's virtue and sentiment. It can be easier if one has a correct attitude and concentration on the cultivation.

There are many ways to cultivate good habits. First, one must know whether a conduct is good or bad, whether it is beneficial to oneself and others, and whether it is moral or not. Second, one then decides whether he/she can be persistent in practicing under any circumstances. One doesn't necessarily succeed in cultivation every time. If failed, one should learn from the experiences of other accomplished cultivators, and then dedicates oneself to practice. Cultivating good habits is one of the principles in Instilling Virtue High School. I wish more friends would join me at the school, and under the teachers' guidance we practice good conducts together.

 by Jack Tseng  age 14

It is very important to develop good habits, because by forming good habits first, one then can develop good personal character. It is important not only to oneself but also to the society.

In our daily lives, all our behavior and acts are the direct reflections of our habits. For example, we sincerely participate in the flag ceremony everyday. That is loyalty. We respect and listen to our parents. That is filiality. We honor our promises and do not cheat on people. That is credibility. We don't waste food, save water, and turn off the lights. That is conservation. Although some of these are trivial things, still, they are good habits that should not be overlooked.

In order to develop good habits, one needs to set goals first. You should know the meaning of "An outstanding person sets persistent goals while petty person constantly sets goals". Don't constantly change your mind, firmly set your goals. You should also know the meaning of "Rather than sitting around talking about it, it's better to get up and work at it". Don't just pay lip service. When developing good habits, you shouldn't quit halfway through. Otherwise, all the efforts will go wasted.

The ancients said, "Cultivate the self, tend to the family, govern the country, and bring about peace for the world". This means that one needs to straighten out himself first in order to contribute to the world. From this we can see the importance of developing good personal habits. If we now know the importance of it, why don't we do it?

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